Long time no update…

August 1, 2007 at 3:57 pm (Life Drama, Misc)

Yes, I am very bad at time-management which, at times, also makes me a very bad friend! I was supposed to catch up with so many people during my school break, but with James here it seems that the time has just flown by in the blink of an eye. But I will get to it, despite the hectic schedule I am now currently forced to undertake. Firstly, I have NO days off from school this semester. Of course, that won’t stop me from missing a day or two here and there. Then I have to worry about finding a practical placement for one of my subjects. I’ve asked my sister to see whether her workplace will accept me for that and in the meantime I’ve also contacted Victoria Police. Fun times for all. I just really want to get through this Diploma and, hopefully, land a job in the next year. Now that I’ve thought a little bit more about my priorities I realise that having work experience and, of course, an income is more important at this point in time. So I’m hoping for the best.

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Update

July 9, 2007 at 7:32 am (Misc, Relationship, Social)

Okay, so James has been here for almost a week and everything’s been going good. No fights – just me getting pissy over something stupid, as I’m wont to do. Today we went to get a new bike for me; part of my weight loss plan as well as giving us something active to do together. What else? We went to Queen Victoria market on Sunday afternoon and I got an awesome emo/Japanese style (in my opinion) black, double-breasted wool coat; we also ate some mouth-watering, freshly-made Spanish donuts. I swear I could eat those all day. We’re going house hunting this week – seriously can’t stand living in the same house with mega-bitch anymore. I’ve still got two more weeks of holidays left, so we’re going to do as much going-out and eating-out as we can. Need to catch up with everyone still; going out to dinners and what-not. I promise to make contact soon!

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1 more day!!!

July 1, 2007 at 11:14 am (Misc, Relationship, Social)

Last night I indulged in a bit of socialisation; or, more rightly, my friend said ‘let’s go out’ and I said ‘yeah’. That is basically the extent of my social life when James isn’t around and was the extent of my social life before he even came into the picture. It would be some friend of mine telling me to go out with them and some of their other friends, who I wouldn’t know, and I’d obediently nod my head and go. Most of the time it was a mortifying experience; whereby my so-called friend would conveniently forget that they invited me, and I’d be left alone to mingle with people I probably had nothing in common with besides the vague connection of originating from the same continent. Those days are gone and will never ever come around again, if I can help it.

Lora, and her friend Caterina (who I guess is also my friend now), are the only two people I’ve socialised with on a proper level for a long time. There’s TAFE friends, and some of my other long-lost friends I always intend to catch up with but always seem to miss, but right now my social circle consists of Lora and Cat, and James – especially James. I’ve also noticed how self-absorbed I’ve become since I’ve taken to spending more time with myself. Yes, I’m probably self-absorbed all the time, but it’s even more apparent now. I don’t know whether Lora and Cat are starting to get sick of it but I’m sure my talking about James and our relationship constantly grows boring. My mouth, once it gets going, just doesn’t know how to stop. On the other hand, I am neither the only one who does it or the only one who is repeatedly guilty of it. But I guess maybe I should practice a little more discretion – it’s just that James is basically part of my life, in every way, so I can’t really leave him out of much. Maybe I should just stop talking about myself altogether – that’s harder than it sounds, but I am capable.

Their time will come and, once they’ve found partners, I’ll let them indulge in constant chatter about their significant other, and I’ll respond enthusiastically. Contrary to popular belief I am actually a good listener – I just might not want to admit that I’ve heard anything you’ve had to say if it doesn’t suit my purposes. I like to hear about other people’s lives – my own is far too boring, really.

Anyway, less than 48 hours until I see James now. After all the pent-up excitement I’ve let build up it feels kind of anti-climactic. But I’m 100% sure that that won’t be the case when we’re finally together…alone…in my bedroom. Cheers.

-Amyelia

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3 more days!

June 29, 2007 at 3:41 am (Misc, Relationship)

Not counting today, there’s only three days until James gets here! I know; it’s weird and slightly deranged (sort of) blogging my countdown, but I don’t care because I’m excited. Why am I excited? Because I get to see my boyfriend after being apart from him for 5 months! That’s almost half a year; and in that time many things happened that wouldn’t have only delayed our reunion, but may have made our relationship cease to exist altogether. I say this to myself every time, but I’m going to say it again – until it finally happens the way I want it to. I’m going to try my best not to ruin the time we have together. I think I’m the instigator of many of our fights and arguments, although not always without cause. I have no excuse now because I shouldn’t have any insecurities about his ex-girlfriend or the fact that we must be apart for so long. He’s coming here to live with me, for the present, and he’s put up with and done so many things for me that I know he hasn’t done for anyone else, including her. I should be grateful, and I am, that there is someone who loves me that much and they just happen to be the person I love very much also. It sounds corny doesn’t it? But things always sound corny to people who, as yet, don’t know what it’s like. Or the jaded. Whichever.

-Amyelia 

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Ready and waiting.

June 26, 2007 at 2:47 am (Misc, Relationship, School)

Finally, I have no need to step foot inside Boxhill Institute of TAFE until next semester! Today, I was able to enrol into my Diploma – without any drama. I am anxious to know whether I’ve passed all the subjects from Certificate IV but so far I only know three of my final marks, out of ten subjects. They are 84, 85 and 90. Two credits and a distinction isn’t bad, for now. I wasn’t really aiming all that high, but whenever I see the mark awarded to me I always wish it were higher, even if I was only expecting to barely pass. I’m strange like that.

So, what’s on the agenda now? Well, I guess it’s just counting down the days until James gets here. Only six more now. Then we’ll figure out what we’re going to be doing with our time together. I know what I want to be doing a lot of, to start. Honestly, I really hope the long-distance relationship is coming to an end. I know it’s doable, but I think there comes a point where you need a bit of stability in the form of close physical presence and no limit to the time you will be in the same vicinity. I need that. So very, very much.

-Amyelia

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7 days to go

June 25, 2007 at 11:15 am (Life Drama, Misc)

Could the ceaseless drama please just…cease?! Today, on my way to school, I got a flat. No, not just a flat - my tire got completely and utterly annihiliated. It was flat to the point of being irreparable. I was stranded for at least an hour before my brother and sister finally came to help me changeover to my spare. I had to go to the tyre shop and get a new tire to replace the busted one right away – yes, I am paranoid and I want to make sure that tomorrow, when I go to school to enrol, everything runs smoothly. Enrollment is only between 9 and 11 in the morning for some reason. So I had to fork out about $80 for the tire, which I can’t really afford on my non-existent salary so I hope my Dad will at least reimburse me some of the cash. I also found out the tires that are currently on my car are too big for it. I don’t know if that had anything to do with my latest dilemma, but it causes other kinds of worrying things. Such as the treading being worn out sooner and my actual speed having discrepancies with my speedometer. Not to sound ungrateful, but my Dad should have just bought me a new car. The amount of things that are SUDDENLY going wrong with this one is annoying the fuck out of me. I’m pretty sure that in no time the repairs will cost more than the car actually did. I know – spoiled brat. What the fuck ever. I still have to deal with all these issues myself since my Dad always makes himself conveniently absent all the time.

Anyway, that’s all for today. Please God, no more!

Only 7 days left! Exciting times.

-Amyelia

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8 more days

June 24, 2007 at 8:33 am (Life Drama, Misc)

Okay, so I was wrong. The other day when I said there was only 8 days left until James is here, I really should have said it was 9…or was it 10? I can’t even remember. But TODAY it is officially 8 days until James arrives in Melbourne. He’s in Singapore now, so there’s no proper way for me to converse with him. He sent me a few mobile messages to let me know that he arrived safely and that he can’t talk to me on MSN because of circumstances. I’m used to being able to hear his voice everyday, if only through Skype, so I’m a little bit sad that I won’t be able to for another 8 days. I’m just trying to focus on the fact that he is actually going to be physically here after those 8 days are up so I shouldn’t be feeling sad just because I can’t hear his voice now. I was going through this kind of pathetic depression last night because I hadn’t talked to him all day, and I basically worried myself sick over him until I finally got the all-clear message. I guess it’s true what some, mostly stupid, people say. I am lovesick.

-Amyelia

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Cold, oh so cold.

June 23, 2007 at 1:50 pm (Misc)

I got exactly NOTHING done today. I woke up at 4pm this afternoon and haven’t done anything since then – besides going out to get food for dinner and then to the service station to get my tires aired and fill up on petrol. This winter has been the worst I’ve ever experienced in Melbourne. It is almost comparably cold to the winter I spent in Vancouver during December 2006/January 2007, and I think that’s saying something. On the television they’re going to great lengths trying to explain how global warming has had a great impact on our changing weather, and I absolutely agree. Summer is exceedingly hot and winter is producing below-freezing temperatures – not something common in a relatively temperate part of Australia. Melbourne used to be the city of four-seasons-in-a-day and now it’s staying at either extreme. The extreme cold is quite the motivation-killer; when your fingers are so numb and cold that you can barely move them, you’d feel like just staying under the covers all day too! I really hope there’s a little bit of relief in the form of warmth soon -  more sun, less wind, less cloud cover…anything. At least I have the prospect of having someone to keep me warm to look forward to. Very soon now!

-Amyelia

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Fin.

June 22, 2007 at 11:37 am (Misc, School)

I am finally finished; everything on my list has been crossed out. Now I am free until I have to begin my Diploma, which I have a feeling is going to be a little more ball-breaking than this semester has been. Hopefully, the teachers I’ll have next time around will be more organised and actually give you a little bit more guidance when setting assessments. Completing the certificate has been a nightmare; mostly because we’ve received nothing so much as a vague outline of what is expected of us and how we should go about doing it. I know – we should learn to think for ourselves. But it is an educational institution, and we are there to LEARN so next time we can gauge the correct method of going about things. Therefore, TEACH us!

In other news, James is leaving England for Singapore tonight and it’s only eight days until he’s finally here! I am more excited than words can express. But I have so many things to do before he gets here – well, I have a lot of CLEANING to do, anyway. I really shouldn’t let my room get into the state it’s in now all the time. It makes it really hard to tidy up later. But school, and bad sleeping patterns and probably general laziness find me not caring most of the time. Ah well. Story of my life.

-Amyelia

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It’s almost over…

June 21, 2007 at 12:20 pm (Misc, School)

The end is so near, I can taste it. Only the report to hand in and the OHS test to get through (and pass) and I will be free for almost a month. I will also be free to dream and count down the days, hours and minutes until James is finally in front of me! It will be so good to get to hug and kiss him again; I’ve missed that more than anything. Although of course I miss other more naughty things we get up to…

The yucky thing is that I still have to attend one class on Monday. I’m not sure why, but if it’s to ensure I pass the subject then I guess I have to bite the bullet. I need to remember that I have to be at school between 9 and 11am on Tuesday morning to enrol into my Diploma. I should really study now. Wouldn’t want to fail a test that is, in all probability, piss easy just because I didn’t bother at least scanning through my notes.

-Amyelia

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